Responding to Worry With Calm and Connection

Caregivers naturally want to help when a child feels anxious. Sometimes, however, repeated reassurance, avoidance, excessive questioning, changing routines, or prolonged goodbyes can unintentionally make worry feel more powerful over time.

This in-depth professional guide helps therapists support caregivers in responding to anxiety with warmth, clarity, predictability, and confidence.

Topics include:

• Reassurance seeking
• Avoidance
• Repeated and excessive questioning
• Rushed or prolonged goodbyes
• Inconsistent and changing routines

Each section includes:

• What caregivers may notice
• What may be happening beneath the behavior
• Responses that may unintentionally strengthen worry
• Helpful caregiver language
• Connection-focused next steps
• Reflection and consultation prompts

This resource can be used during caregiver consultations, referenced when preparing for sessions, or used to develop individualized support plans.

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