Supporting Your Child After Sexual Abuse: What to Do and How to Help A Two-Part Caregiver Guide

When a child discloses sexual abuse, it can feel overwhelming to know what to do next. This guide was created to gently walk caregivers through both the practical steps and the emotional support children need in the aftermath of disclosure.

Rooted in trauma-informed care and child development, this resource helps you respond in ways that protect your child’s safety, strengthen your connection, and support long-term healing.

What’s Included:

Part 1: Practical Support & Next Steps
Clear, grounded guidance on what to do immediately after a disclosure, including:

• Prioritizing emotional and physical safety

• Understanding the reporting process

• What to expect from professionals (CPS, law enforcement, CACs)

• Common language and terms you may hear

• How to navigate next steps without overwhelming your child

Part 2: Emotional & Relational Support
Support for how to show up for your child in the moments and days that follow, including:

• What to say (and what to avoid)

• Understanding trauma responses in children

• Supporting your child’s nervous system and sense of safety

• Rebuilding autonomy and trust

• When to seek therapy and how to find the right support

• Caring for yourself as a caregiver